Quinn joined CT Support Group Advisory Board member Michael Scanlon from Street Smart Ventures to talk about community, relationships, vulnerability, generosity & more! In a time where so many folks have expressed feeling lonely, isolated, and disconnected from their community, it’s incredibly important to find ways to remind ourselves that while we’re all each other has, we are also all we will ever need.
Start with Small Steps
If you’re looking to build your community but aren’t sure where to start, here are some small steps you can take.
Add a question to your everyday interactions
Ask your postal worker how their day is going, check in with your neighbors before a snow storm, ask your barista what their favorite drink is, ask your co-worker what they’ve been watching lately. Adding a step to your everyday interactions creates an opportunity for connection, to learn something new about the folks you already see on a regular basis. Extending the invitation for conversation is how we start to create deeper relationships with each other, which is a vital part of building a community.
Remember people’s names
Find a trick that helps you to remember the names of folks you interact with. Picture yourself telling a story about your interaction to a friend. Create a visual association in your mind when you learn someone’s name. Repeat their name back when they introduce themself. Whatever you find that helps, practice it!
Ask people in your network first when you need a good or a service
Instead of relying on a Google search, AI, or an Amazon order to fulfill a need, practice reaching out to folks you know first to see if they or someone they know is able to meet your need. Text your friends and ask if they know anyone selling that piece of furniture you’re looking for. Ask your neighbor if they have a plumber they trust. Check with your local librarian if you’re looking for a resource. Especially in situations where you’re likely to spend money, doing what you can to keep that money in your community goes a long way in building stronger relationships with the folks around you.
Take time to reflect on your knowledge and skills
Think about the things you’re good at. Maybe you’re an artist or a trained medical professional. Some of you are incredibly emotionally supportive, effective planners, or skilled at finding resources for folks. Maybe you have a knack for fixing cars, cooking, or for persuasive writing. Everyone is good at something! Once you’ve taken the time to inventory your skills and talents, find places in your community to offer them. Find the folks in your vicinity doing work that you care about and believe in, and join them!
Looking for Next Steps?
We’ll be posting more about community building and creating deeper connections with the folks around you in the coming weeks! Stay tuned!
