Another year, another Valentine’s Day spent single.

Even though I’m relatively used to being single, feelings of loneliness still creep in, more so during Valentine’s Day, where relationships take a huge focus. However, I’ve come to learn that just because I’m single, doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy Valentine’s Day. Here are some ways you, too, can enjoy the day if you’re single like me.

Road Trip

One thing you can do is take a trip to your favorite places. It can be a scenic view, a restaurant, or even a grocery store. I’ve often gone to the store just to walk around when I needed to change my environment. It’s helped give me a sense of community.

Visit Loved Ones

Take some time to visit your family or friends. Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to just be about romantic relationships. You can take the opportunity to celebrate familial and platonic relationships too!

Listen To Music

I find music to be incredibly therapeutic. Sometimes when life gets over overwhelming, I’ll stop and listen to my favorite songs. Lately, I’ve been paying more attention to the instrumentals in the songs I listen to. It’s very soothing. Oh, and I can’t forget about the mock concerts I have when I’m really pumped up. 😂

Have A Move Night

At the end of a long day, you can sit back, relax, and watch your favorite movie. If you’re feeling up to it, you can even do a movie marathon throughout the night. There’s a plethora of streaming services with a plethora of movies to choose from. Personally, I would avoid romance movies. Instead, I’d probably rewatch movies from my favorite franchise: Star Wars.

Attend A Singles Event

If more of your focus is on finding love, then attending a singles event might be something to try. I’ve seen some posted every now and then, and I wouldn’t be surprised if there were a lot more available during the month of February. As someone who experiences social anxiety, this would be a challenge for me. However, if I’m able to step outside my comfort zone, I think it’s definitely something I would try at least once!

So those are a few ways you can still enjoy Valentine’s Day even if you are single. Options are not limited to what I shared. It’s all about finding what works best for you! ~ T

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Single Life

Valentine’s week can be a tough time for some. Couples and couples activities are slightly thrown in the faces of those who are single.  And it isn’t just during the week of Valentine’s Day, but the weeks leading up to it as well. There’s romance movies and TV shows running all the time. There’s an increase amount of flowers and chocolates available in stores.

I have been single for my entire life.  It used to be very depressing and I do sometimes still feel lonely.  Having a romantic partner would be such an honor. I’m patiently waiting for the day where I meet them.  

It’s Okay to be Single

Some of you may feel that way too.  Just know, though, that it is perfectly okay to not be in a romantic relationship.  

I have goals I am working towards achieving.  I feel that some goals need to either be fully achieved. Or even close enough to complete before I enter a romantic relationship. That way I can give the best version of myself to my future partner.

The Day Will Come

Our time will come, my fellow singles.  Don’t force anything to happen.  Please be as patient as you can.

The days that pass from now to the beginning of your romantic journey creates perfect opportunities for you to continue working on achieving your goals.

I wish you all enormous amounts of success and happiness!

– Therell 🤠

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